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· 5 min read

A 4-minute reset for anxious afternoons

Maya Ellison

, LMFT

Around 3pm, many of us hit a wall. The inbox fills up, the body tenses, and small worries start to feel enormous. This routine takes four minutes and works at a desk, in a car or in a bathroom stall. No one has to know.

1. Breathe out longer than you breathe in

Inhale through your nose for a count of four, then exhale slowly for six. A longer out-breath tells your nervous system it is safe to slow down. Repeat five times.

Try it now: in for 4, out for 6. Bloom will wait.

2. Name five things you can see

Look around and quietly name five things: the mug, the window, the green pen. Grounding brings attention back to the room instead of the what-ifs.

You don’t have to fix the feeling. You only have to give it a little room.

3. Choose one small next step

Not the whole to-do list. One thing you can finish in ten minutes. Momentum is kinder to an anxious mind than a perfect plan.

If afternoons like this happen most days, it may be worth talking it through with someone. That’s what the free call is for.

Want a calmer week, not just a calmer afternoon?

Want a calmer week, not just a calmer afternoon?

inout
Breathe in · 4 s

before you go

Take one slow breath with Bloom.

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1120 NW Hollow Lane
Suite 300, Portland, OR

Mon–Thu 9am–7pm
Fri 9am–3pm

In crisis? Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, US) or call 911. This site is not for emergencies.

Halcy is a website template. The practice, therapist and photos are fictional.

inout
Breathe in · 4 s

before you go

Take one slow breath with Bloom.

Visit

1120 NW Hollow Lane
Suite 300, Portland, OR

Mon–Thu 9am–7pm
Fri 9am–3pm

In crisis? Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, US) or call 911. This site is not for emergencies.

Halcy is a website template. The practice, therapist and photos are fictional.

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