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A 4-minute reset for anxious afternoons

Maya Ellison
, LMFT

Around 3pm, many of us hit a wall. The inbox fills up, the body tenses, and small worries start to feel enormous. This routine takes four minutes and works at a desk, in a car or in a bathroom stall. No one has to know.
1. Breathe out longer than you breathe in
Inhale through your nose for a count of four, then exhale slowly for six. A longer out-breath tells your nervous system it is safe to slow down. Repeat five times.

Try it now: in for 4, out for 6. Bloom will wait.
2. Name five things you can see
Look around and quietly name five things: the mug, the window, the green pen. Grounding brings attention back to the room instead of the what-ifs.
You don’t have to fix the feeling. You only have to give it a little room.
3. Choose one small next step
Not the whole to-do list. One thing you can finish in ten minutes. Momentum is kinder to an anxious mind than a perfect plan.
If afternoons like this happen most days, it may be worth talking it through with someone. That’s what the free call is for.